the power of women

there is a taboo about feminism that make people cringe at the thought of dikey women getting together to castrate men and provide solely for themselves... well, i mean, if you think of feminism in that way

some words just get bad reps and can never be taken seriously again... ((communism, balls, etc))... and i think feminism has gotten a bad rep.. i really think women need to stick together as much as they can.. they're so vindictive and evil, but i think it's only because they're so afraid of everyone else, so afraid of their ego falling...

i work with the best group of girls... my manager only picks girls to work with us who she knows will get along with everyone.. and, surprisingly, there is absolutely NO drama at my work!! and this is usually not the case when there is a 10:1 ratio of girls to guys.. but there isnt any fighting.. all of the girls i work with are absolutely amazing, strong, kind people who look out for each other and truly care for everyone else... this is the kind of feminism i'm talking about.. just being able to truly love each other and not fight or bicker or take revenge on anything.. these are women, not girls.. i'm one of the youngest ones there and i am learning so much from all of them.. my god, i do work with the best girls around ((i work at open sesame.. and if you dont know what that is, you need to find out!!))

i bring this up because i have been kind of having a bad couple of days for reasons i will not disclose as i have made this a blog of bigger perspective, not tedious bullshit

anyway, the girls in my life have given me so much strength and motivation to move forward with my life and i pity anyone who does not have a strong friend-base.. it really does make or break a person.. especially because the people who you surround yourself with usually tend to define you.. which is true for the most part.. and i'm so thankful for all of the girls in my life

so women, please keep your friends closer than your boyfriends/husbands/FWB (friend-with-benefit).. because they ((the boy... or girl!!) will always ALWAYS come and go but your friends will be standing next to you each time that happens

don't say you weren't warned