it freaks me out that we can just both pretend like the other one isnt in the bathroom.. like the other person doesnt even exist!! why do people do that??? we go about our business in that small. confined place and dont even acknowledge each other's presence!!
and that's just one instance... that happens all the time... everyone's on their own little agenda... but yet we still have some things we have to share... like elevators, bathrooms, stores, movie theaters, the little area at coffee shops where you get coffee stirrers and sugars and milk
the same day i was sitting in the library and i saw a guy sit down with a group of 3 girls who were sitting at a 4-chair table.... he had PLENTY of room for all his stuff, but one of the girls moves her phone an INCH in toward her... an INCH!!!! it's like the phone was outside of her bubble and intruded into his bubble that he was making when he sat down... i dont know.. social spaces have really been on my mind lately
on the other hand, my kitten doesnt have social spaces and lays on my face sometimes just because that's where she wants to be
i am going to go into the library and sprawl out completely on someone's table... all over their books and snacks and phones and laptops.. and see what they say.... a couple options:
laugh
yell at me.. something like "what the fuck, man!!"
have a low-reaction time and just watch me do it... THEN yell at me
or they'd be too worried about making a scene and they'd just let me do it
on my last day of finals, i'm going to do it.. i mean i dont want to have to see those kids oncampus for the next year ... ya know??
NOW YOU KNOW
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